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Charleston

About a week ago, we all heard the horrifying news about the Charleston shooting.  If you don’t know the details, Google it.  I’m not a news reporter…merely a thinker and feeler like you.

Hearts were broken. Lives were torn apart.  What has been done can never be undone.  A ripple has once again been set into motion that will have long reaching impact beyond the scope of what you and I will ever really know or understand.  Because Charleston in and of itself is but a mere ripple in the ongoing saga of the global, timeless story of hate and injustice.  It started with Cain and Abel…brother against brother.  And who knows if and when it will ever end.

Racism? Yes.  Hate crime? Absolutely.  By product of a systemic evil? I believe so.  Political fodder? Sadly, it is.

Aren’t we all aware that hate exists in the world?  Don’t we know it’s been here since the origin or the species?  Don’t we fully expect it to always exist in this world?  Don’t we “get” that politics and new laws and tearing down of old relics will accomplish nothing?

GOOD & BAD EXAMPLES

Ferguson & Baltimore showed us examples of how political and racial divide only divided things further, and made bad situations even worse.  Dr Martin Luther King taught us, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.  Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

Dr King knew something very important: you can’t politicize love.  He never called for forced legalization of acceptance.  He did not seek for “love” of fellow humankind to be accomplished politically, but rather socially and spiritually.

In my opinion, it seems, ironically enough, that the south has handled Charleston better than the northern cities of Ferguson & Baltimore handled their sad & troubling situations.  Rather than riots, looting, and hate mongering, many citizens of Charleston bonded together across racial lines, and held a vigil an inter-racial prayer vigil and memorial for the victims who lost their lives on the evening of June 17, 2015 in the mass shooting.

In the midst of great crisis, the people of the community came together, unified by grief, despair, sorrow….and yes, love.  Black & White people southerners came together united, choosing not to be divided.  For all the knocks the south has taken toward racism, it appears that the south has faired better than their northern counterparts on a communal level.

In this photo taken June 19, 2015, photos of the victims of the shooting at Emanuel AME Church in Charleston, S.C., are held during a vigil at the Metropolitan African Methodist Episcopal Church in Washington. The black church has long been the cornerstone and sanctuary for African American life. It has also long been a target for racists and white supremacists trying to strike blows against the African American psyche. The latest attack came Wednesday in Charleston, South Carolina, when 21-year-old Dylann Storm Roof joined a prayer meeting inside historic Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church and shot nine people dead, including the pastor, the Rev. Clementa Pinckney, and other ministers. (AP Photo/Glynn A. Hill)

Does racism still exist in the south? Sure.  But doesn’t it exist everywhere?  Name a town in any country; any city in the world, and we will find hate existing somewhere in that community.

So what do we do about racism, and sexism, and religious divide?  I’m not sure that’s the right question.  I think the right question is this:  What are YOU going to do about it in your heart and mind.  What will you pass down to the future generation growing up in your own household?  How will you be an agent of loving change in the community where you live?

Many will choose political argument, lobbying, loud voices and raised fists.  But I believe there to be a better way.  And I believe “that way” will have greater and longer lasting impact in the longest run.

I will leave you with the words of Mahatma Gandhi who said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”

God bless America.


Overcome These 4 Obstacles that are Keeping You from Success!

We all want to achieve greater success in one or more areas of our lives.  There are at least 4 Obstacles that are holding you back.  It’s up to YOU to discover which one it is that’s holding YOU back!  But…it will only happen if you’re honest with yourself.

Watch this video!  It’s barely over 2 minutes and you’ll enjoy it.  Listen carefully for the 4 Obstacles that may be holding YOU back from achieving the Success that YOU desire.  Be really honest with yourself!  And then decide if you’re willing to get back up one more time and do what it takes to be an Overcomer!


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COME ON – GET REAL!

Because Nobody is Attracted to the Fake You

I see it all the time… Every day in fact.
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YIKES!  This scares me to death for you!  Why?

Because most of these people have made NO MONEY TO SPEAK OF!

I personally witness every single day of the week PEOPLE I KNOW PERSONALLY who have never had success in the areas in which they are pitching themselves as Coaches! BEWARE!!

I DON’T WANT YOU TO BE THESE PEOPLE!!!!!

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3 Things You Must Master to Achieve Great Success

The Road to Success is Found in Self Mastery

The Road to Success is Found in Self Mastery

Anyone who has ever achieved success will tell you there’s no real secret! It finally comes down to who is willing to work the hardest.

I have learned that there are 3 areas in which you must focus your hard work:

1) The Basic Skills associated with your choice of vehicle to advance yourself. ie: if you choose to be a hair dresser, become THE BEST! Which means you must find a way, over time, to study with the best. Learn EVERYTHING you can about every hair style possible, and master every cut from every generation!

2) Personal Growth is absolutely necessary! This area of development focuses on things like Advanced Mindset, Emotional Maturity, Leadership, Higher Level Management Skills, Thinking Patterns, and more. There’s only one way to advance yourself: ADVANCE YOURSELF!

3) People Skills will be the Final Test to see how bad you really want to succeed, and will determine whether you go ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP, or fall short of your total potential. Learn to Master the Art of Understanding People, Learning to Speak the Language of their Need, and Helping them to get what THEY want. In turn, you will get what YOU want!

Self Mastery is THE Door that either opens or closes you to the success you desire. Work harder on YOU than you do anything or anyone else…and success will be yours.